Just Married? - Here's What's Next...

First things first: CONGRATULATIONS! 🥂
You said “I do,” exchanged vows, and danced the night away surrounded by the people you love most. Whether it’s been a few days or a few weeks since your wedding, we want to pause and celebrate what just happened:
You began your forever. 💍

As the confetti settles, the florals fade, and your photos start rolling in, you might be wondering: Now what?

At Amazing Graze Events, we walk closely with couples through the wedding planning season—but we also believe the real journey begins after the aisle. So here’s a little guidance, encouragement, and love as you step into this next chapter.

1. Soak It All In

You just experienced one of the most sacred and joy-filled moments of your life. Don’t rush into the “next thing” too fast. Reflect on your wedding day. Look through your photos. Talk about your favorite moments. Share your memories with loved ones. Laugh at the bloopers. Cry at the vows (again).

Give yourself permission to just be married.

2. Send Those Thank You Cards

It may not be the most glamorous task, but expressing gratitude is such a beautiful habit to start your marriage with. Set aside an evening or two, light a candle, put on worship music or your wedding playlist, and start writing.

Tip: Divide the list with your spouse—it’s more fun and meaningful to do it together.

3. Update Legal Details (As Needed)

If you’re changing your name or updating marital status, now’s the time to check off those post-wedding to-do’s:

  • Social Security card

  • Driver’s license

  • Bank accounts and credit cards

  • Insurance policies

  • Emergency contacts

It’s not the most romantic part of getting married—but it helps life run smoother down the road.

4. Plan Your Newlywed Routine

The wedding is over, but your story is just beginning. Take time to talk about your shared rhythms as a married couple:

  • How will you spend time with God together?

  • What will your daily/weekly routines look like?

  • How will you continue to date each other and grow your love?

Your marriage will thrive when it’s rooted in intentionality and faith.

5. Create a Home That Reflects Both of You

Whether you’re moving into a new home or merging spaces, have fun making it yours. Blend your styles, hang your favorite wedding photo, display a verse that anchors your marriage.

Your home doesn’t have to be Pinterest-perfect—it just needs to be a safe space where love, grace, and laughter live.

6. Stay Grounded in Community

Marriage isn’t meant to be done alone. Stay close to your church, your mentors, and your married friends. Seek out couples who have walked before you, and don’t be afraid to ask for guidance or encouragement when needed.

Marriage is a gift—but it’s also a growing process. Having wise voices around you makes all the difference.

7. Keep Celebrating the Covenant

Your wedding was one day. Your marriage is for a lifetime. Keep finding ways to celebrate the covenant you made before God:

  • Revisit your vows

  • Start a prayer journal together

  • Mark each anniversary with intention

  • Speak blessings over your marriage regularly

This love is sacred. Keep treating it that way.

Final Thoughts

To all our spring and summer newlyweds—we’re cheering for you. Your wedding was a beautiful beginning, but what’s ahead is even greater. You’ve planted seeds of promise, and now it’s time to water them with grace, faith, and intentional love.

We’re honored to have been a part of your special day—and we’re praying for your journey ahead. 💛

From all of us at Amazing Graze Events—congrats again, and welcome to forever.

How Long Should You Be Engaged? Finding the Sweet Spot for Your Wedding Timeline

So you’ve said "Yes!", now comes the next big question that doesn’t have just one answer: How long should you be engaged before tying the knot?

At Amazing Graze Events, we’ve seen couples with timelines as short as three months and as long as three years. The truth is, there’s no perfect number, it’s really about what works best for you.

So, how do you decide what works for you? Here are a few things to consider as you figure out on the length of your engagement:

1. Your Vision for the Wedding

Do you dream of a grand affair with lots of guests and intricate details? Or are you leaning toward an intimate elopement or micro-wedding?

  • Larger weddings often require 12–18 months to plan, especially if you want your pick of specific vendors during peak seasons.

  • Smaller celebrations can often be pulled together in a shorter amount of time.

2. Budget & Financial Planning

An extended engagement can give you more time to save for your desired wedding without financial stress. In the same breath, longer engagements can also mean more time to add “just one more thing” to the budget.

3. Stress Levels & Decision Fatigue

Some couples thrive on long-term planning. Others get overwhelmed if the to-do list drags on too long.

Ask yourselves:

  • Do we want a shorter, focused season of planning?

  • Or would we prefer to take things slowly and space out the decision-making?

4. Life & Logistics

Maybe you’re finishing grad school, relocating, or expecting other large life changes. Your engagement timeline should align with your life; don’t feel the need to rush or delay based on what others expect.

Our Advice? Make It Meaningful

No matter the length of your engagement, the time you spend preparing for your marriage is truly what matters most. Choose a timeline that allows you to plan intentionally, enjoy the process, and celebrate with joy.

💐 Need help making your vision come to life whether you're planning in six months or sixteen?
Amazing Graze Events is here to walk you through every step with calm, clarity, and creativity.

Let’s make your day amazing on your timeline.
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The Morning Of - Peaceful Preparation for the Morning of Your Wedding Day

The morning of your wedding is finally here! Butterflies are fluttering, excitement is in the air, and the hours ahead are full of love, laughter, and sacred moments. But let’s be honest—those morning hours can also feel a bit overwhelming without a plan.

At Amazing Graze Events, we believe your wedding day should start with peace, purpose, and presence. Whether you’re a Type-A planner or just going with the flow, here are some helpful tips to set the tone for a joyful, stress-free morning rooted in love and faith.

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1. Start with Prayer and Quiet Time

Before the makeup brushes come out and the timeline kicks in, take a moment to center yourself. Spend a few quiet minutes in prayer, journaling, or reading a favorite scripture. This can ground your heart in gratitude and remind you of the bigger picture—this day is about covenant, not just celebration.

Scripture to meditate on:
"This is the day that the Lord has made; let us rejoice and be glad in it." – Psalm 118:24

2. Stick to a Realistic, Peaceful Timeline

A solid schedule is your best friend on the wedding morning. Build in buffer time between hair, makeup, photos, and travel—because things will take longer than expected. A calm schedule = a calm bride.

Pro Tip: Assign someone (like your Maid of Honor or planner) to keep an eye on the clock so you can stay present.

3. Fuel Your Body (Even If You’re Not Hungry)

It’s easy to forget to eat when nerves kick in, but you’ll need energy to walk that aisle, dance your heart out, and soak in every moment. Keep it simple with a light breakfast: think fruit, toast, protein bars, or smoothies.

And don’t forget to hydrate! (Yes, even if you’re worried about bathroom breaks.)

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4. Surround Yourself with Peaceful, Positive People

Choose your getting-ready crew wisely. Fill your space with friends and family who bring peace, encouragement, and joy—not stress or drama. This should be a sacred, happy bubble before the whirlwind begins.

Bonus: Create a worship playlist or soft background music to keep the vibe serene and joyful.

5. Have a “Details” Box Ready for Your Photographer

To save time and keep things organized, gather your wedding details (rings, invitations, perfume, heirlooms, vow books, etc.) into one box or bag. This makes it easy for your photographer to capture those flat-lay shots without needing to ask.

6. Write or Read a Letter to Your Fiancé

This quiet moment—just you, your heart, and your promises—can be deeply emotional. Whether you’re writing your final letter or reading one from your soon-to-be spouse, let this time remind you of the why behind the wedding.

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7. Don’t Stress Over the Little Things

Something small might go off-plan. A bobby pin will break. Someone might run late. The weather might be unpredictable. Breathe, pray, and let it go. What matters most is that you're marrying the one God brought into your life.

8. Soak It In

Look around. Listen to the laughter. Take mental snapshots of your bridesmaids in matching robes, your mom helping with your dress, or the stillness before the celebration. This day only happens once. Be present for it.

Final Thoughts

The morning of your wedding is more than prep—it’s sacred. It’s a time to reflect, pray, laugh, and prepare your heart for the promise ahead. Our team at Amazing Graze Events is here to support you every step of the way, so you can step into your day with peace, confidence, and joy.

From first light to first dance—this is the day the Lord has made. Rejoice in it.

Looking for more faith-filled wedding planning tips and inspiration? Visit amazinggrazeevents.com and follow us on Instagram for behind-the-scenes moments, real weddings, and more bridal wisdom.

Weather Woes

We all hope for clear skies and sunshine on our special day, but the reality is that rain can be an unexpected guest at any outdoor wedding. Fret not! With careful planning and smart use of our venue's many spaces, we make it entirely possible to have a magical and memorable wedding even in the rain.

Amazing Couples: Brooke & Jaxson

Brooke and Jax chose to sow more love by marrying at the Amazing Graze Barn. The two were wed in the upstairs chapel of our barn and enjoyed a reception downstairs.

You’re invited to view their gallery, take inspiration from their day, and soak up the images of their love.

Amazing Couples: The Wilkins

Sydni and Jason Wilkins chose to sow more love by getting married at the Amazing Graze Barn. The two tied the knot outside at the Cedar Arbor. The pond and Fall florals on the wooden cross made the best backdrop.

You’re invited to view their gallery, take inspiration from their day, and soak up the images of their love.

Amazing Couples: The Clark's

Alissa and Wesley Clark chose to sow more love by marrying at the Amazing Graze Barn. The two were wed in the upstairs chapel of our barn and enjoyed a reception downstairs.

You’re invited to view their gallery, take inspiration from their day, and soak up the images of their love.

Amazing Couples: The Ranes

Mr. & Mrs. Ranes chose to sow more love by getting married at the Amazing Graze Barn on First Fruits Farm. The two tied the knot in the upstairs of our barn.

Take in the beauty of their day - scroll down for a few of their wedding images.

7 Last Minute Tips for the Last Minute Groom

Here are some last-minute tips for the groom:

1. Double-check your outfit

Make sure your suit is clean, pressed, and ready to go. Don't forget your accessories like cufflinks, tie, and shoes.

2. Confirm the schedule

Double-check the timing and location of the ceremony and reception. Ensure that you know where you need to be and when.

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3. Take care of yourself

Get a good night's sleep and eat a healthy breakfast. Stay hydrated and take a few moments to relax and calm your nerves.

4. Final grooming

Trim your nails, groom your hair, and make sure you're looking your best. Consider a final touch-up shave if needed.

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5. Prepare your vows

Take some time to review and practice your wedding vows. This will help you feel more confident during the ceremony.

6. Stay organized

Have all necessary documents, such as your ID and marriage license, ready to go.

7. Remember to stay calm

Enjoy the day – it's a special one!

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